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Old love

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Friday, 28 August 2009

Probably more than once wondered what is happening today with your first love. In moments of crisis ś perhaps, that the fate of divided your ways, and the relationship with a former boyfriend certainly not as dramatic moments like this where you are now. Experiencing first love is usually a time when all the experience we receive extremely. A young man who matures (it is no longer a child, but in the adult world does not find), looking for his place - the friendships, love and infatuation takes very seriously. First love is to be the latter. Emotional, which accompanies this experience is so large that we remember and the situations and people for a long time. A memory of first love, often purely platonic, and very romantic, accompanies us through life. After this period are the love poems and diaries written at night and nice memories. Indeed, the majority of the first great love passes. In another - though apparently every love is the first - already are entering the baggage of experience. First love, so nice mentioned, there is no occasion collide with the prose of everyday life. A shared apartment, bills, problems, and fatigue are usual for many romantic relationships barrier, which can not be beat. Going to the cinema, walking and stick to the hand does not require any of the parties to compromise, choices that often put on the scales good partner or their own advantage. Hence the crisis of everyday life, such love can not survive. Often, in moments of particular tension marriage with indifference fondly remember the first trade partner, we regret that this youthful love does not survive. And rather than confront the real problem, which is the crisis of marriage, we live what would happen if ... And that's not enough that nowhere does not lead, it still raises the level of frustration and enhances the current conflict. For those who believe in the Platonic vision of the world - looking for second half (philosopher preached the concept of perfect beings who have been separated and that to achieve happiness and the ideal look for their second half), this can be especially frustrating. According to this theory, only one half fits perfectly for us. I may seem to us that it was just this great youthful fascination ... With the portals through which you can find classmates, certainly revived many old feelings and friendship. Meeting of two disillusioned after years of people's lives can easily be transformed in an attempt to revive the old relationship. Just love that school today must operate in a completely different reality, which is not necessarily a good ground for the renewal of romantic feelings. Idealization of the former partners and relationships is often associated with the desire to escape from problems back to the idyllic period of my youth. Also, the memories of those relationships - emotional, but also carefree - they are an expression of longing for youth and appropriate to this period, experiencing the world. Taught by experience, full of fears and expectations of adult life partner, we expect an entirely different character traits and behaviors. Before we begin to idealize the old boyfriend, and think about what would happen if ..., think about how to avert the conflict and deduce the relationship of the crisis. And even if there is no longer what to save in this respect, reheating old love does not necessarily make sense.

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