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| Friday, 28 August 2009 | |
Y ou are becoming less satisfied with the turn of events in their relationship. You know and love for many years. It would be naive to expect that the state of crazy falling in love will last forever, but you expect from your connection something more. Something because suddenly disappeared. Spontaneity? Passion? Passion?
Even the great affair - think - everything is not just routine! Wondering how to refresh your relationship and what happened to his former shape. Here are a few possible answers to your questions. From time immemorial attention of poets and thinkers burst of human affairs: on the one hand we want to be free and to gain the world, on the other - we want to feel safe. Usually solve this task in carrying out their need for freedom and spontaneity in life or a hobby, but the need for security - in the fire house. Safe is what repeatable, and therefore possible to predict accurately. Give us a sense of security visit the church, the tradition of cultivation (observance of a holiday, going to the elections), or even rigidly fixed working hours. In one word it is safe for everything that ritualized, with a definite structure and a clear sequence of execution of operations. That is why sometimes we fall into a rut. Its function is very important stabilizing element in mental life. It does not have it be part of the union. "Causal treatment" in relation to the routine so you can start a regular exercise routine activities not related to the relationship partner. Although it will require from you a lot of self-denial, try to turn a regular part of their schedule. This should be a function that you really like, preferably also has some emotional significance. For example, you go to Mass every morning. Morning physical activity will also be a good solution. If you are not a believer and you do not like traffic in the open air - just buy every day before work favorite newspaper and read it over coffee at a nearby cafe. Suggest the same thing to your partner. If you find a stabilizing emotions outside the compound, you will be more brave and hungry spontaneity in your relationship. Symptomatic It is possible that irritates your routine but you have a problem to talk to your partner. Yet you do not want him to feel that it is boring, or that you no longer interested. Think, however, looks like your behavior from his perspective: even though you're tired, you perform all routine actions and activities related to your relationship. Both of you feel like a variation. If you do not say this clearly, you will remain in routine - both not satisfied. Revolutionary solution may be off the TV and computer, or eliminate what is guiding element of your routine. To look upon each other and you have to do something not long ago did you do: it can go to the movies? Go at the weekend for an all-day walk? Or maybe you just talk honestly with each other? Go a little deeper than "how's work?" - "OK darling, au you?" - "Ok" may soon find that you still have to deal with someone exciting and unique - with that person, whom many flushed years ago fervent religion. Of course, that a new, sexy lingerie and erotic films viewed together again, you will find and stimulate passion. But not for long. To avoid the routine of sex, you must first ensure that the lack of routine in other areas of the relationship. And learn to talk honestly about what they would like and what does not like. |
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The school one bench go everywhere together! Then fate threw you in different directions. 


ou are becoming less satisfied with the turn of events in their relationship. You know and love for many years. It would be naive to expect that the state of crazy falling in love will last forever, but you expect from your connection something more. Something because suddenly disappeared. Spontaneity? Passion? Passion?