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Friday, 28 August 2009

The school one bench go everywhere together! Then fate threw you in different directions. Just talking about you, parents and friends. I fully deserve for this term: rarely the clothes and one could not endure without the other from each other on exams (hopefully one of you would mind a close, and the second - humanistic). The photos from years ago, and that sometimes you reach the evening, even when you do not stand next to each other, it is evident that connects you great familiarity. Each of you had the key to the heart of the latter. But when your ways parted. Did you see her for ten, perhaps twenty years. From time to time you come into my thoughts for many years. You remember all the moments spent together. Perhaps a sign that you miss her and that it is high time for reactivation of your friendship? With recent studies-made on behalf of Olay brand that has a statistical throughout his life more than a few friends. It is in relation to their loyal and faithful. What's interesting: women over 50 years of age have more female friends than male-oriented 25-year olds. With time we begin to value friendship more than love. And when our family life is stable, happy thoughts go back to youthful friendship. It reminds us of the days when we were beautiful, carefree and happy. If you have a friend from the old and very like to find her, Do not give up, even if you do not know how to do it. Contrary to appearances, you have many options. Start with the internet - is now the easiest and quickest way to find someone he knew. Type its name in the Internet search engine. Perhaps in this way, you hit on her trail, you may learn where she works (many companies have on their websites a list of employees). Search a popular social networking portals. Log in there and see if your friend is not established his / her profile. If this does not bring results, the demand of common friends. Maybe someone has contact with her? Refer also to the old notebook full of addresses. It is possible that her parents still live in the same place and tell you what is happening with it now. Then, in addition to a phone number, you will learn how her life. It will be easier for you to renew contact, or at least start a conversation. During the search ask yourself the question: "Why am I actually doing this? Why so much effort I put gates to the past". Reasons may be many. It is, you seemed aware of these issues, because thanks to avoid any disappointments. Certainly a stimulus, which leads you to action is simple, human curiosity. We like to find out how long your friend looks like her life. But this reunion is also an opportunity to summarize and self-reflection. Recalling the past, you will see not only that a friend has changed, but you alone. Telling stories about himself, summarizing what happened to you, you realize the things that every day you do not think: you're an explosive or that your family too often meddle in your life. Or that you are really happy! In addition, each meeting once a person close to us is a fantastic one advantage: it is a good medicine for the monotony of everyday life. Over time we forget what was bad or unpleasant in the past and remember only what is pleasant. That is why a friend is associated with these youthful joy and all those cool moments that you recall with a smile. Encounter with her remember what you were once before for others. What do what crazy, as dreamed that you had plans for the future. May want to wake up in the back that girl? Finally her phone number. Do you want to immediately take the phone and hear her voice, when suddenly you doubt. How to start this conversation? Certainly do not call if you have a bad day. There is nothing worse than to hear the voice on the phone a long time friend dripping with sadness. Then the other party may be either very troubled, or lose the desire to talk. Wait for a calm moment, preferably when you are at home alone. Consider for a moment, what you yourself like to hear if she called you. Talking on the phone, do not tell within 10 minutes of ten years of his life. Just tell her that for her, and that like to see her again, talk to that you are curious to see what she had. It may also happen that your parting years ago ended in a great quarrel, and every one of you wore in the heart of resentment over the years. Do not need to talk on the phone "sorry", but if you say, and you open it, and it in a sincere, good conversation. Forget about the old. Now you are adults and begin to build a relationship again. If an appointment, you can invite her home, but also a good place is your favorite intimate eatery. Make sure that no loud music drowned your talk. How do I start? The worst way is the task of her questions: "Are you happy?". This seems to be noble and full of care, and in fact is the most embarrassing under the sun. Because he has to answer a person who is not happy? And if it is, but you are not, as we shall roll up your dialogue? Note: leave the philosophical questions for the next evening, when after a few wine will be able to play in the thoughts of happiness. "What's up?" - Is equally irrelevant question. Start from simply: "I am delighted to see you" - and the next everything was supposed to be the same. During the first interview is not burying its mass of information about themselves, rather than listen - after all, is your curiosity is satisfied. Start with neutral topics, ask her parents, siblings, or maintains contact with other people from your old class. You will see that they do not see what it's like you fly a few hours. With a meeting after all these years is like a date in the dark. Or do you feel chemistry or not. Do not assume in advance that it would immediately like before. After two very. Even the great and true friendship requires time to be born again. During the meeting, watch it closely, and myself. After an hour conversation, know it is what "was the old days." And - more importantly - if you want to be with his girlfriend to meet the second and third. You may find that you need more time than at the start thinking, maybe what was once will never come back? Then you can be friends, who occasionally meet to reminisce. However, there is a big chance that the two did not that something that makes you feel perfectly in your company. Then we particularly care about it. Remember one rule: friendship is peace. You may feel tempted to, as ever, to share everything with her and call with any trivial. Do not do this. Now, when each of you has your life, you have to manage time differently. Maybe that will meet regularly every two weeks? Such friendship is a treasure If you return to the old friendship, you'll have someone to whom you could count who you listen to. Who was the witness of your maturation as a very young man, and now accompanies you in later life. There was the moment when you and perhaps because she could now be a greater distance to look at your problems when you ask her for advice. It all these years she gained a new experience. So perhaps you could learn something from it? People change, but feelings are nurtured revive again. Although this small girl is now an important lady clerk, still understands you, knows how to listen and laugh when you have a worse day. You can watch together and remember old pictures, but also to acquire new memories. Such a relationship we cherish above all for themselves. Because if people in the world who remember your natural hair color, or know where is the scar on his knee? Who honestly say that these outbursts of anger it's not a symptom of the disease, because always, like something you are not going out. In time it will see as well at the follies of your stories about your children play. How do I listen with interest. Indeed, they see a completely different mother. The sometimes hard to believe that you or were you ever a teenager. And you wake up that girl. Therefore, we find a friend from years ago.

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