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Friday, 28 August 2009 |
He says the ancient legend, the first born jealousy between God and the Devil, who was unable to bear the excellence and usefulness of bee appointed by God, created in his image.
How much truth - not known - but the fact is that where the roads cross a few people there and growing jealousy. Jealousy every day. It is difficult to not talk in conjunction with the love and union, which may be so jealous help and harm. In a stable relationship with long periods of sudden jealousy of a partner can help in the rebirth of feeling, but a young relationship - only to inflame the conflict. As emphasized by psychologists jealousy, as affecting the elderly and younger lovers, often due to the subconscious inferiority and exuberant ego, which encourages us to keep other people at bay. However, with each type of jealousy can cope with. Each or jealous will certainly help to focus not on the partner, but on himself - dealing with each other and your passions as well as appearance. Council is not the parade will also keep the nerves in the present situation of admirers among the group of partner or partners. And in the end - in this difficult lesson is also useful for the credit of trust to a partner and patience, which so many of us are missing. A small gold frame very often envious of harmless affection turns into a phobia and this - in the disease. This happens when one partner begins to confuse love with jealousy, not lords over your ego. As a result, jealousy becomes a way to derive pleasure from having power over another person who feels tired quickly such a relationship. Continuous monitoring, evaluation of another person, tampering and slow cutting it from the group of friends and can make the link with give a sense of fulfillment and security is quickly becoming cramped and unbearably lonely cage. How to succeed in such cases, psychologists must as soon as possible to build a secure border, protect themselves and their privacy, put on their own, showing that "I and you do not always mean you". And if that does not work? It is necessary to honest conversation and leave the immature partner. However, love is one of the most beautiful feelings that we can bestow on another human being, the more we cherish them every day. Everyday conversation, the common celebration of food, maintaining self-created habits reinforces ties between us with your partner or with a partner. And as the only big, mature love is able to overcome any obstacles, so only she can understand the wisdom of bitter jealousy - fueled by reciprocity, because only the pinch as anything can revive stalled inherent in the relationship. Without it, love would not be the end of love, lust - the eternally living fire. |
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